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PostPosted: 02/20/17 11:00 am    ::: Wiggins: WNBA's 'harmful' culture of bullying, jealousy Reply Reply with quote

http://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/sports/sd-sp-wigginsside-20170217-story.html

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Wiggins, a four-time All-American at Stanford, asserts she was targeted for harassment from the time she was drafted by Minnesota because she is heterosexual and a nationally popular figure, of whom many other players were jealous.

“Me being heterosexual and straight, and being vocal in my identity as a straight woman was huge,” Wiggins said. “I would say 98 percent of the women in the WNBA are gay women. It was a conformist type of place. There was a whole different set of rules they (the other players) could apply.

“There was a lot of jealousy and competition, and we’re all fighting for crumbs,” Wiggins said. “The way I looked, the way I played – those things contributed to the tension.



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 11:46 am    ::: Reply Reply with quote

**Giving this article the sideeye**

What kind of proof ya got? As far as league performance, its not the financial juggernaut that the NBA is but its making progress, slow, deliberate, painstaking, hard fought progress.
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There is no published data on the percentage of WNBA players who are gay. In a 10-team league that employs 120 players annually, at least 12 current and former players have come out publicly in various forms of media


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Of the league as a whole, Wiggins said, “Nobody cares about the WNBA. Viewership is minimal. Ticket sales are very low. They give away tickets and people don’t come to the game.”






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PostPosted: 02/20/17 11:58 am    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Wow. What a POS she is. I had no idea.


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PostPosted: 02/20/17 12:05 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

"I would say 98 percent of the women in the WNBA are gay women."

Um...no?



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 12:07 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

If 98% of the players in the league were gay, that would leave room for only 3 straight players. And there are a lot more players that I know for sure are straight than ones I know are gay. A pretty ignorant thing to say on her part. For being a Stanford graduate, she's not very informed.


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PostPosted: 02/20/17 12:11 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

If she thinks that there's some sport out there that's immune to jealousy, "othering", and prima-donna behavior, she's got another think coming. None of the four big male sports (MLB, NBA, NFL, NHL) are immune, why should the WNBA be immune?

Furthermore, there's not going to be some bastion of straight sports either. Volleyball's players might be more feminine in some people's eyes, but it's more likely that those players are more closeted.


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PostPosted: 02/20/17 12:11 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Well this seems to be going over well.

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98 percent tho? Tried it.


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Dang, hope I made the 2% cut 😂😂😂


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How i feel reading the recent article about heterosexuals being bullied in the WNBA .. 🤔🤔 ["Have A Seat"]

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PostPosted: 02/20/17 12:31 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

I can see where some players wouldn't be too fond of Wiggins.She was a "Rah Rah" over exuberant player.That can become tiresome as a teammate.When you jump up and down in the opponents face after scoring a basket or drawing an offensive foul,you're going to rub some people the wrong way.Wiggins' appears to have a very draining personality.




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PostPosted: 02/20/17 12:31 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Well, this article gives legitimacy to all the assholes who constantly talk crap about the WNBA. Its unfortunate. I know every player probably has their own experience with the league but as a WNBA fan this is hard to hear. I like the WNBA often more than the NBA for several reasons but one of the reasons was I liked the perceived culture of the league. From the outside looking in, there seemed to be a certain respect and comradery among the players. A "we're in this together" attitude around the league. At the very least a "Competition is competition but I'm not going to be a jerk to you when the game/practice is over" attitude. Maybe my image of the WNBA is idealistic and completely wrong. If Wiggins was bullied because of her sexuality, that's horrible. No game should come before someones emotional and mental well being and no person should be treated differently because of their orientation, race, or religion. These are things that shouldn't need to be said. Again my assumption of the WNBA was that they were a more mature and tolerate league then many male leagues...but according to Wiggins that may be a very wrong thing to assume, so maybe these are things that do need to be told to these players (by who though, I don't know). I wonder if other straight players will have anything to say about this....

Edit: Welp, seems like other players don't quite agree with Wiggins lol.




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Wiggins said she is writing an autobiography with the working title, “The WNBA Diaries,” based on her journals as a player.


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RP wrote:
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Wiggins said she is writing an autobiography with the working title, “The WNBA Diaries,” based on her journals as a player.


"I was bullied for being straight! Read more in my upcoming book!"



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 1:04 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Very disappointing comments from her. Sad to read.


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PostPosted: 02/20/17 1:11 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Watched Wiggins MN portion of her career up-close and personal; so as a fan looking in my observation was:

Found her to be very much an enigma. Fans mostly saw the really outgoing, extroverted person but she in fact seems to have a very shy, introverted side that most folks didn’t see. Saw both sides from day 1. Never saw or heard of any push for Lynx players to be “like men” Rolling Eyes

Candice came into the league animated and very, if not overly demonstrative all too often for some fans AND players.
Point blank, IMO, other players were less jealous and most often irritated with her due to on court antics. She was tenacious on defense but what got into it w/ some players, because some might have felt were cheap shots.
I can think of 4 particular games right off the top where different players during the game and/or in the handshake line (a few no hand shake) wanted to knock her block off ; because she could be a hack & cheap shot artist.

So I can understand maybe, what she felt from her prospective, but the reality might/must be what was hard for her to handle.



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 1:19 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Shameful self-promotion via lesbophobia.
I wonder how Tara VanDerveer feels about her now.
If the WNBA was so awful, why did she play 8 seasons?




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PostPosted: 02/20/17 1:20 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Yea she tried it with the 98% lol



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She complained about the WNBA's lack of attention and pay, but she's going to try beach volleyball at 30+?


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miller40 wrote:
She complained about the WNBA's lack of attention and pay, but she's going to try beach volleyball at 30+?


That's prime age for volleyball. Kerri Walsh Jennings is 38.



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Shades wrote:

That's prime age for volleyball. Kerri Walsh Jennings is 38.

Not to be getting your start...

Ypu can definitely play at a high level longer than you can in a sport like basketball, but that comes from years of experience being able to compensate for the decline in athleticism.



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miller40 wrote:
She complained about the WNBA's lack of attention and pay, but she's going to try beach volleyball at 30+?


And also, if no one cares about the WNBA, who is going to buy her book?



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I cant really comment on her personal experience because I was not in the locker room with her or any WNBA player. But there are quite a few WNBA players who are gay. I have also heard from people who have worked for WNBA teams that some players who have boyfriends before the season starts, begin to date women by the end of the season. (Which is their business by the way and also if I recall, Chantel Anderson wrote a book or blog on her experience on the WNBA as well and it touched on the subject of
WNBA players and sexuality).

One thing Candace is correct on is that may teams do give away lots of tickets. I do believe that a majority of the players are gay but want to keep their personal lives personal. But Candace makes it seems like its a situation where you are forced to be gay or "else". I don't think this is true at all. The players don't want to work in an environment that causes separation on and off the court.


The statements that she made fall right in with those idiots who assume that every woman who plays basketball is gay which . If the environment was so bad, then why did't she quit and just play overseas?


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PostPosted: 02/20/17 3:48 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

I wonder what VanDerveer thinks of this.



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I can believe that Candice Wiggins was bullied. I can believe that there were lesbian players who treated her badly. All sports cultures, like all non-sports cultures, have bad people in them. All groups have bad people in them.

But the unqualified attack that Wiggins has launched will, in my view, hurt every lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or questioning female athlete. It goes far beyond the WNBA. Wiggins wants to play beach volleyball. What she's done will hurt lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning women and girls in the volleyball world.

Wiggins' statements will be ammunition for every sexist, homophobic bigot and especially for every sexist, homophobic bigot who wants to trash women's sports.

Candice Wiggins could have found a way of talking about painful experiences she's had without using them to present a wide-ranging smear.



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 4:44 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

I posted this not realizing it had already been. Mods pls delete other thread. I have so many positive thoughts about Wiggins. I'll elaborate more later. But for her sake I regret that her experiences weren't more positive. I really thought she loved playing in NY. I'm also wondering if her remarks and quotes are accurate and in context.

If so, Bob made some excellent points above about the manner in which the orientation of players is discussed. And I have to add, very disappointing because this is not the person I thought she was. Again, I'm wondering if all the quotes are accurate.



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she's heterosexual and straight? isn't it given that heterosexual = straight?

I don't know, but something seems off with her explanation of why she quit the league. I've never heard a whisper about such a cabal of gay women in the league. has anyone? and her 98% of the league being gay also seems high.

the way she played? how about your non-stop trash-talking motor mouth. perhaps that was the issue other players had with you.



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When she retired, she said it was due to her injuries. Now I don't really know what to believe.



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 6:14 pm    ::: I Shall Be Polite. . . .I Shall Be Polite Reply Reply with quote

A pretty, heterosexual, educated, PRIVILEGED woman claiming that the mean old lesbians bullied her is exactly as stupid as some White guy claiming that Black people are racist. Yeah, sorry Candice, but you don't get to go there. You have straight privilege. You got to walk out of the locker room every day and be totally accepted by the vast majority of humanity.

Meanwhile, all the Minnesotan butch lesbians sitting in the stands cheering for you and rooting for you and buying season tickets to make sure you got paid? Those women have had to deal with fear, rejection from their own families, strangers calling them names. But they accepted you and encouraged you and followed you even after you left Minnesota.

And the WNBA lesbian players couldn't really be out when Candice was playing. Every gay WNBA player grew up in a culture where Candice Wiggins was the ideal and being queer meant you were inferior and wrong.

I am not going to call Candice Wiggins names. I am disappointed that a young woman with a fine college education could be so ignorant about her own privilege and what it might be like to not have what she has. I find her sadly lacking in empathy. I find her sadly lacking in gratitude.

I find it very easy to believe that any bullying she may have experienced came as a result of her own self-absorption as evidenced by what she has to say.

In closing I would like to say that I sincerely hope that 98% of the women in the WNBA are lesbian. Because, in the immortal words of Kristen Stewart: "Dude, I am, like, SO gay."



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 6:15 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

Bob Lamm wrote:
I can believe that Candice Wiggins was bullied. I can believe that there were lesbian players who treated her badly. All sports cultures, like all non-sports cultures, have bad people in them. All groups have bad people in them.

But the unqualified attack that Wiggins has launched will, in my view, hurt every lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or questioning female athlete. It goes far beyond the WNBA. Wiggins wants to play beach volleyball. What she's done will hurt lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning women and girls in the volleyball world.

Wiggins' statements will be ammunition for every sexist, homophobic bigot and especially for every sexist, homophobic bigot who wants to trash women's sports.

Candice Wiggins could have found a way of talking about painful experiences she's had without using them to present a wide-ranging smear.


Thank you Bob for calling this trash out for what it is. She comes off as a whiny little b--- and based solely on what she chose to share, it's no wonder players of all sexualities called her what she is.

"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful." Honey, you ain't all that. And that's not why they hate you. You just full of hate yourself. Classic projection.



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petrel wrote:


Furthermore, there's not going to be some bastion of straight sports either. Volleyball's players might be more feminine in some people's eyes, but it's more likely that those players are more closeted.


Are lesbians over-represented in all women sports? I know a guy got fired for talking about how many lesbians were in golf, and golf really isn't even a sport.

Some of the women's softball teams (but I think it is going away) wear ribbons in their hair, which to me is trying too hard to look feminine, and maybe straight as well.



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scullyfu wrote:
and her 98% of the league being gay also seems high.


Yeah, Sue Wicks and some former ABL player both estimated it as "more than 50%", but 98% seems way too high. That would mean 3 players are straight.


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tfan wrote:
scullyfu wrote:
and her 98% of the league being gay also seems high.


Yeah, Sue Wicks and some former ABL player both estimated it as "more than 50%", but 98% seems way too high. That would mean 3 players are straight.

It's pretty clearly a ridiculous "estimate"
Unfortunately I think that her Trumping up that figure has made a mockery of her whole stance, and therefore potentially hurt the credibility of some valid points she might also have had, which is a pity.

The whole thing rubs me up the wrong way though. I don't doubt that there are mean people in the league (of all orientations, colours, etc.) but I don't like the underlying implication that even if the real number is 98%, that players are going to band together and bully someone just because they are straight. I suspect that this might be closer to the mark of what's really going on:
@womensbball247 wrote:
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Here's a bit of history. In 2000, Alisa Solomon, an outstanding journalist in New York City, was covering the New York Liberty for the sports page of the Village Voice. She did an interview with Sue Wicks in which she asked about lesbian players in the WNBA. Wicks replied: "I can't say how many players are gay, but it would be easier to count the straight ones." Wicks also said she found it "annoying" how the WNBA was almost exclusively promoting players who were in heterosexual marriages and were mothers.

http://www.villagevoice.com/news/sue-wickss-forward-behavior-6417883



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scullyfu wrote:
she's heterosexual and straight? isn't it given that heterosexual = straight?



Heterosexual but not straight would be bisexual, for example. Smile..Do we really need an explicit reason for her retiring? She avg'd fewer than 2 points in 14, and fewer than 3 in 2015. It's not like Ogwumike (LA) or another valuable players like that decided to call it quits.



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Luuuc wrote:
I suspect that this might be closer to the mark of what's really going on:
@womensbball247 wrote:
The B word will float around during games but i'm pretty sure it has nothing to do with your sexuality and more to do with just being a B...


Yep, Mo sums it up pretty well. Act like a mosquito and people will slap the sh-t out of you. Unrelated to sexuality.



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Here is what's most important to me in this discussion.

We know that 98% of the players in the WNBA aren't lesbians. Given how highly closeted some people are--some of them in longtime heterosexual marriages--I don't believe there's anyone who can know for sure how many WNBA players are lesbians. But let's say for the sake of argument that lesbians are either a majority of WNBA players or a substantial majority.

How many of those lesbian players are fully out? A small percentage. The same for lesbian athletes in other sports. The same for lesbian coaches throughout sports.

Even with the advances our country has seen regarding LGBT rights, the vast majority of lesbian athletes and lesbian coaches don't feel comfortable or safe coming out. To be as clear as possible, I say this without a word of criticism for any of these athletes and coaches.

I am a passionate fan of a sport where this is the reality for many of the players and coaches I cheer on. They don't feel they can be honest about who they are. That makes me very sad and very angry.



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Wiggins signed with the Liberty on March 9, 2015 and she retired on March 22, 2016. Given that free agency starts on February, 1, Candice hung out there for a long time in both cases. I suspect there wasn't much interest, and any offers were probably for a low salary. She could just be feeling bitter about the rejection. During the middle of last season, she suddenly posted something about being not retired. It almost sounded like she was sending out a signal that she still wanted to play.

Regarding there being just 3 straight players in the league, Candice's 2015 Liberty team had Cash and Warley-Talbert married to men and Kiah Stokes had a boyfriend. So, that's four just on her team alone.

I also remember that there were three opponents that season who wanted to beat the crap out of her. Zellous and TRP were two of them, and I think Christmas was the third. It didn't look like it had anything to do with Candice being straight. It was just the physical way Wiggins was defending them, and maybe she was jawing at them too.



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Regarding there being just 3 straight players in the league, Candice's 2015 Liberty team had Cash and Warley-Talbert married to men and Kiah Stokes had a boyfriend. So, that's four just on her team alone.

Side note, I know speculation is always going to happen, and I'm not disputing anything about any particular player, but for me personally I don't think that being pregnant or being married to a man or having a boyfriend is proof that someone is straight.
(I don't think it really matters either. I just think we should be careful about what we cite as "proof" given that reality is far less black-and-white than that, people put up fronts, people can change over time, etc...)



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There was an article that came out less than a year before she retired where she talked about how she made defense and getting into the head of the opposition her calling card. embrace that role if that is the identity you wish to establish. But that comes with repercussions.



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Luuuc wrote:
root_thing wrote:
Regarding there being just 3 straight players in the league, Candice's 2015 Liberty team had Cash and Warley-Talbert married to men and Kiah Stokes had a boyfriend. So, that's four just on her team alone.

Side note, I know speculation is always going to happen, and I'm not disputing anything about any particular player, but for me personally I don't think that being pregnant or being married to a man or having a boyfriend is proof that someone is straight.
(I don't think it really matters either. I just think we should be careful about what we cite as "proof" given that reality is far less black-and-white than that, people put up fronts, people can change over time, etc...)


Exactly right.



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Serious question: Why did the San Diego Union-Tribune publish this? Who is Todd Leonard and why didn't he seem to get any other sources then Wiggins? I mean if you are going to write an article claiming that a league that is tied closely to the NBA has a culture of bullying and everyone is gay and all straight players get harassed then wouldn't you want more then one source to make such a bold claim?

I mean, this article...true or false, or kinda true or kinda false can easily feed into the all trolls that trash the WNBA like its their job . And like stated by others it can make things more difficult for gay athletes.

I haven't seen one player yet say "yep, Wiggins is totally right. I have had the same experience" but I have seen many WNBA players tweeting out against what she said, and claiming that its false.

So why didn't Todd Leonard do more research? Talk to more WNBA players? Make sure that the person they were writing on article on was credible and not just a bitter former employee?


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Luuuc wrote:
root_thing wrote:
Regarding there being just 3 straight players in the league, Candice's 2015 Liberty team had Cash and Warley-Talbert married to men and Kiah Stokes had a boyfriend. So, that's four just on her team alone.

Side note, I know speculation is always going to happen, and I'm not disputing anything about any particular player, but for me personally I don't think that being pregnant or being married to a man or having a boyfriend is proof that someone is straight.
(I don't think it really matters either. I just think we should be careful about what we cite as "proof" given that reality is far less black-and-white than that, people put up fronts, people can change over time, etc...)


Exactly right.


True, but Candice is claiming that she was harassed for being straight and feminine. Even if you're a closeted lesbian, you're not going to intimidate someone for being what you're pretending to be. Or if you're a lipstick lesbian (is that term still used?), you're certainly not going to get on someone's case for being feminine.



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Todd Leonard. Can't even count to 12. Nuff said.
Once he ran out of fingers and there were still teams left it really should have tipped him off that the number was not 10 though.



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Luuuc wrote:
root_thing wrote:
Regarding there being just 3 straight players in the league, Candice's 2015 Liberty team had Cash and Warley-Talbert married to men and Kiah Stokes had a boyfriend. So, that's four just on her team alone.

Side note, I know speculation is always going to happen, and I'm not disputing anything about any particular player, but for me personally I don't think that being pregnant or being married to a man or having a boyfriend is proof that someone is straight.
(I don't think it really matters either. I just think we should be careful about what we cite as "proof" given that reality is far less black-and-white than that, people put up fronts, people can change over time, etc...)


Yep, I was thinking about making a list of married players and offering it as proof of more straight players than 2%, and I did a search and found "WNBA players married to NBA players". They gave Jason Collins and (former Stanford player) Carolyn Moos as one of only three examples. (Candace Parker and Monica Wright being the other two). But Jason Collins is now famous for being the first active NBA player to come out.



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How many of those lesbian players are fully out? A small percentage. The same for lesbian athletes in other sports. The same for lesbian coaches throughout sports.

Even with the advances our country has seen regarding LGBT rights, the vast majority of lesbian athletes and lesbian coaches don't feel comfortable or safe coming out. To be as clear as possible, I say this without a word of criticism for any of these athletes and coaches.

I am a passionate fan of a sport where this is the reality for many of the players and coaches I cheer on. They don't feel they can be honest about who they are. That makes me very sad and very angry.


I wonder if the closeted WNBA players are re-thinking things now that Augustus, McCoughtry, Griner, Delle Donne (1/3 of the Olympic team) and others are now out and there was no backlash against them.


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I'm still trying to get over the "heterosexual and straight" line.
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Spot on analysis from WNBA Fans Nation (not to be confused with WNBA Fan's Page) :

The points Candice Wiggins makes and my opinions regarding them (sorry, a bit long):
1) "the league is 98% gay." It's higher than the national norm - I put it at about 50% - but even on her team there were stars who are straight. Many of the players who are gay don't hide it but also don't come right out and say it. We just tend to let them be and not make a big deal about it.
2) "I was called a B!TCH". I actually heard her called that... on the court. She was one of the biggest trash talkers I'd ever heard and an aggressive defender. In fact, I wanted to call her that myself a few times when I felt she was getting away with stuff. I know that she had an arrogance as a rookie that rubbed people the wrong way and I could see some vigorous defending happening as a result.
3) "people don’t come to the game" She mostly played for Minnesota, a team whose success brought a lot of people to the games. I've been there maybe a dozen times. That crowd is great.
4) "she was disheartened by a culture in the WNBA that encouraged women to look and act like men" There's a uniform code but it's identical to what's in college. Players when traveling are also sometimes expected to be in team shirt and sweats. But no one stopped Tina Thompson from wearing lipstick and no one regulated them when they were not representing the team.
5) "asserts she was targeted for harassment from the time she was drafted by Minnesota because she is heterosexual and a nationally popular figure, of whom many other players were jealous." "Wiggins said she is writing an autobiography with the working title, “The WNBA Diaries,” based on her journals as a player." These are really the money quotes. This is a player who had a very good career in college and came into the league expecting to be a "face" similar to how Skylar Diggins is. She'd earned her starting spot but got the first in a long list of injuries in 2010. The next year, she came back and had lost it: Monica Wright had come in and taken over 6th woman and they drafted Maya Moore. Wiggins became the 3 point specialist on that team instead of the star she felt she could be. She WANTED to be "nationally popular" but that wasn't true even when she was a starter because the Lynx were not good and therefore didn't get attention.

She's writing a book. She's hinting at all sorts of secrets to be revealed and dirt to be dished. She's got people talking about her. That was the aim of this interview. Never mind who she might hurt along the way. I am dismissing much of it as an attempt to get attention.



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The lady doth protest too much....
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Did Sophia Young write the excerpt of this book?



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PostPosted: 02/20/17 10:32 pm    ::: Reply Reply with quote

We know at least one locker room she was in was toxic, or at least hazardous to one's health. Is it possible that she just assumed general asshattery was about her specifically?



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